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evie
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 Posted: Tue Sep 23, 2008 6:24 pm Post subject: TNT means a lot, but not everything. |
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This time I feel like watching the TNT-release from outside. Something bigger has happend to me. I'm soon 6 month pregnant. For 5 months I've been very sick. Throwing up, been into hospital three times. My life has sort of been on hold. And I'm alone with all this. When I told the father that I'm pregnant, he said he won't have anything to do with me and the baby.
I'm watching Ronni and TNT on TV. I'll buy the CD when I get money.
I will not see TNT live. I know others go to conserts when they're pregnant, but I'm afraid to hurt the baby.
One day when the baby is born, and I get someone to babysit, I'll go to see TNT again.
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Darlis
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I'm both sorry and happy for you, Evie! Sorry to hear you've been sick and has to go through this alone  But happy for you that you're gonna get a beautiful baby  Wish you all the best - just trust you're instincts and everything will be fine
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JustaGirlieGirl2
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Congratulations for your upcoming happy event. It's a drag that you are operating in solo mode, but don't feel badly, you will do what is best no matter what. You should definitely feel comfortable to go to any event if you are up to it, but of course, you will be the best judge. While I know the music won't hurt, standing anywhere near the front crazies would be a very bad idea!
If you need any name suggestions, I am sure we can come up with plenty of good ones :-)
BTW, no matter what the situation with the father is, your child is completely entitled to financial support! At least that is how it works here.
Take care and be happy!!!
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Nina
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| Posted: Tue Sep 23, 2008 8:18 pm Post subject: |
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It'll be a TNT lover in u,...hears when u sing the songs. 
Maybe when the kid is born the kids dad will see it's real, and maybe he'll be a man and support u. It takes two to tango.! Best of luck to u. |
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ESPO
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Wishing you & the baby all the best. Sorry to hear you haven't been feeling well.  The good news is you're in the final trimester & the baby will be here before you know it. Keep taking care of yourself & that baby. Regarding the father...he will someday regret the decision he has made and hopefully he'll come around & do what's right for your child.
Keep Rockin Evie...you have our support 
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evie
Joined: 21 Sep 2006
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| Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 9:20 pm Post subject: |
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| JustaGirlieGirl2 wrote: |
If you need any name suggestions, I am sure we can come up with plenty of good ones
BTW, no matter what the situation with the father is, your child is completely entitled to financial support! At least that is how it works here.
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It's a jungle of names out there. That's why I decided to chose between my relatives names. It's almost shure that it is a girl, so I think I'm gona use my greatgrandmothers name.
The financial supports are no problem. The father have to pay childcare, even if he denies to be a part of the childs life. |
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evie
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| Nina wrote: |
Maybe when the kid is born the kids dad will see it's real, and maybe he'll be a man and support u. It takes two to tango.! Best of luck to u. |
I hope so. I will never denie him seeing his child. |
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evie
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| Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 9:25 pm Post subject: |
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| ESPO wrote: | | Wishing you & the baby all the best. Sorry to hear you haven't been feeling well. The good news is you're in the final trimester & the baby will be here before you know it. Keep taking care of yourself & that baby. |
I lost a lot of weight the first months, but now I've startet to gain weight now. I haven't been throwing up in a couple weeks, so I hope the best for the last trimester. |
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Tone
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| Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 10:18 pm Post subject: All the best |
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I wish you and the little baby all the best, Evie!! I quess it will be the best christmaspresent you will get this year? 
I'm sure you'll make it, even if you're alone, remember, you're a woman! |
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Sami
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Happy 4 you E !!!
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DCK
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Good luck with the baby Evie, all the best to you and the baby.
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evie
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| Posted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 1:44 pm Post subject: Re: All the best |
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| Tone wrote: | I wish you and the little baby all the best, Evie!! I quess it will be the best christmaspresent you will get this year?
I'm sure you'll make it, even if you're alone, remember, you're a woman! |
Perhaps a christmaspresent, perhaps a newyearbaby. The term is January 2nd. |
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LeFreak
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| Congratulations and here's wishing you have a smoother pregnancy and that everything gets fixed along the way. |
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tonym77
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caligirl
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Evie-Congrats Girl!!!
Remember any man can be a dad but it takes a real man to be a father.
Maybe once your baby is born, he'll step up a be a man! I went through the same crap with my daughter! But as soon as he saw her, everything changed!! 12 years and one more kid and he's still here...
Things will get better, you'll see. Don't let it get you down! You are going to be a good mother no matter what! Don't stress out too much, that is what's making you sick.
Don't deny yourself some fun, pregnant or not!!! Moderation is the key! I went to many a concert when i was pregnant with both of my kids. And it paid off. My daughter is a singer/actress & my son is going to be a drummer!
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